A little less than two months from now, I’m going to have a birthday. And in a decimal society, this is one that will put me outside a number of people’s search boundaries on, er, social sites.

Which is fine. People have the right to look for whomever they want to look for.

But there comes a point when, every five years or so, one becomes less visible to the world outside the existing circle of friends. It’s an interesting metaphor for aging generally.

But you know what? One can be just as kinky, just as polyamorous, just as sex-positive, no matter the age.

I’m glad to have the years, and the experience that comes with them. They make for deeper love, better skills, more ability to bring pleasure.

And if folks don’t want that on their radar, I certainly hope they find whatever it is that they seek!